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Find out what happens when women break the rules – those unwritten but all too real bullsh*t expectations of how we should live our lives. Cristen Conger and Caroline Ervin (formerly Stuff Mom Never Told You) tackle questions through their trademark obsessive research, stories from rule-breakin’ ladies and a solid dose of delightful feminist rage.

  • How to Run Like a Girl
    States across the U.S. are racing to ban trans girls from school sports. Why? Because two teen runners in Connecticut did arguably the riskiest thing transgender athletes can do these... Read more
    Published on: 2021-06-22
  • Ask Unladylike: Why Can't I Make Friends?
    Dear unladies, we've got a trio of advice q's on deck AND a dazzling guest! Comedian Negin Farsad helps us make new friends. Then, Cristen and Caroline go ham on... Read more
    Published on: 2021-06-15
  • Dating After Sexual Assault
    You’ve survived sexual trauma. But then what? This episode, we're breaking the silence on the ripple effects of rape and assault and exploring pathways to healing and relearning intimacy with... Read more
    Published on: 2021-06-01
  • How to Leave Your Abuser
    Exiting abusive relationships can be extremely difficult — especially when your partner is extremely powerful. But that's what Tanya Selvaratnam did when she broke up with former New York Attorney... Read more
    Published on: 2021-05-25
  • Ask Unladylike: Happiness vs. Toxic Positivity
    Where's the line between fostering happiness and just forcing women to smile all the time? Yale psychologist and the host of The Happiness Lab podcast, Laurie Santos, breaks down the... Read more
    Published on: 2021-05-18
  • How to Call Bullsh*t with Sen. Mazie Hirono
    Hawaii Senator Mazie Hirono is a trailblazer, feminist and a political force to be reckoned with. Cristen and Caroline talk to the Senator about sexism, AAPI stereotyping, calling bullsh*t and... Read more
    Published on: 2021-05-11
  • Beyond Trans Visibility with Raquel Willis
    Activist Raquel Willis is on the frontlines of the trans rights movement 24/7. We follow Raquel's journey to becoming a modern-day movement leader. Plus, we dig deeper into trans inclusion in... Read more
    Published on: 2021-05-04
  • ADHD All Grown Up
    Why are so many women struggling with attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)? Caroline and Cristen sort through the gender stereotyping and moralizing that obscures ADHD in girls and why finally getting... Read more
    Published on: 2021-04-27