On Purpose with Jay Shetty
The Episode for People Who Are Exhausted By Dating (How to Change Your Strategy and Mindset for the New Year)
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Are you tired of dating?
What’s your biggest dating struggle?
Today, Jay talks about the complexities of dating, relationships, and building meaningful connections in today’s fast-paced world. He emphasizes the importance of focusing on trust, emotional maturity, communication, and shared values – traits that truly matter in a partner – while learning to move past surface-level “icks” that can distract us from finding real love.
Through personal anecdotes and insights from Match’s Singles in America study, Jay explores why many of us are chasing outdated ideas of love, trying to recreate the romanticized relationships of our younger selves. Instead, shift your focus to the present, to nurture healthy dynamics built on honesty, respect, and mutual growth.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How to Build Trust in Relationships
How to Spot the Right Partner Through Their Actions
How to Ask Questions That Reveal True Priorities
How to Balance Patience and Expectations in Relationships
How to Handle Communication Differences Effectively
No matter where you are on your journey –single, dating, or in a long-term relationship – remember that love is a process, not a destination.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
01:01 Why Dating Has Become Extremely Challenging
06:24 The Core Values Feature
10:28 Questions to Ask on the First Date
12:58 Top Two Turn On with a New Partner
13:55 Are You Being Patient with the Right Person?
17:30 Does Your Partner’s Opinion Bother You?
19:14 Allow Other Forms of Relationships to Grow
21:54 Do You Communicate Properly with Your Partner?
24:01 Most Relationships Has a Healing Problem
25:16 Are You in the Wrong Relationship?
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